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Domstack's avatar

Bare minimum requirements I look for in a girl:

1. Not overweight

2. Somewhat pretty

3. No tattoos (I can look past something small on the wrist or something like that)

4. No facial modifications that make them look uncanny valley (lip filler, Botox, etc.)

5. Not on antidepressants, adderall, other prescription mood altering drugs

It’s shocking how few women meet these low-bar requirements. The ones that do have a massively inflated sense of self. Our immigration policy should exclusively import women that are a 7 and above to take them down a peg.

Daniel Lee's avatar

Somewhat pretty = a beautiful mid to call your own

EliezerYudnerdsky's avatar

"I can look past something small on the wrist or something like that"

Cringe.

BirdOfGoodOmen's avatar

I mean, unless you're in le ebic based Amish-country you kinda have to. Even the Christian women get tattoos now. So yeah, I get overlooking a tiny youthful indiscretion. It's that or stay single period.

Kristen's avatar

But stimulant-medication for those with ADHD actually serves as a mediating force in the development of co-morbid psychological conditions!!

If a woman is diagnosed and medicated with stimulants early she’s FAR less likely to ever go on to develop a lot of the psychiatric conditions and poor life-outcomes.

Twin-studies have repeatedly shown this!!

Jason Chastain's avatar

Don, just marry one of the imports, a traditional one. Why bother waiting for the inflated egos to deflate? Not worth the squeeze.

The Lady Layman's avatar

So glad I removed you as a follower. What a hateful thing to say about American women.

Jason Chastain's avatar

There’s nothing hateful about having standards. Men want traditional women. And in the modern west that is very very hard to find. They’re free to do what they want, but I just recommend to men that they find a traditional woman. It is what it is.🤷‍♂️

Balls McGee's avatar

GOP Feminism is an issue that has yet to be addressed. Mike Johnson said that young men need to put down the video games and get married. 1/3rd of American women are obese based on BMI; I don’t want to marry a fat insufferable American woman.

Law Order's avatar

I feel so bad for any conservative men who lose their job, and need to go on medicaid after COBRA. They have work/volunteer requirements even after contributing so much in taxes throughout their careers while the welfare queens don't have to work or volunteer at all to keep getting free handouts like WIC, TANF, SNAP/EBT, WIC, Section 8, LIHEAP, CCDF, Head Start, and Medicaid.

The Lady Layman's avatar

15% of single men in America make enough for the Stay at Home wife fantasy.

Until then you’re gonna have to treat your woman like she’s working too.

Belte's avatar

“Twenty-nine-year-old woman demands”…sorry, lost it at that. She’s on the cusp of issues with fertility and complains these religious men (who are usually very interested in having multiple children) don’t live up to her standards. Incredible.

Kevin Babcock's avatar

These ladies should read more Jane Austen. Her lines about 29 year old maids should put their ideas about life into perspective.

Dave49's avatar

Sounds like conservative D.C. women are no better than any other women across the nation. Bottom line is they have too many high standards that the vast majority of men can't meet. I think the breakups described in the WaPo article had less to do with the religious commitment of the male and more to do with the women didn't think they were hot enough and rich enough. Women who are 5's and 6's think they deserve men who are 9 and 10.

The dating problem has been a serious issue for over 20yrs it's just gotten worse. In the early 2000's there was a good writer named Angela Fiori who talked about this and she hammered women for seemingly only desiring to date criminals or movie stars.

HandsomeYoungGoy's avatar

Honestly, politically aloof, nominally leftist women are so much easier to deal with than so called “conservative” women who are loud, obnoxious, and given to contention on seemingly everything.

Estate of Bob Saget's avatar

conservative women have more "non negotiables"

Kristen's avatar

As a woman who was a College Republican way back in 2000, I find it a little strange when I see other right-wing women seek very actively conservative men as partners.

The alternative that I chose was to settle down and marry a normie centrist feminist-minded registered Democrat.

The reason why this works is because if he’s of the “second-wave feminist” persuasion then they’ll generally defer to you on “instilling the conservative family values” aspect because if you’re independently already aligned to already be a registered republican as a woman then you’re already sufficiently “ideologically devoted” to small-c conservatism.

The reality of the dating scene for right-wing women is that if you’re reasonably attractive and “socially normal” you can actually successfully date across the entire political spectrum. This is ESPECIALLY true if you’re in the faction of upper-middle class Republicans who have (and always will) send their daughters to “elite libtarded universities” because it puts them on the life-course of “educational assortative mating.”

Most “anti feminist trads” who are very religious or blue-collar coded don’t understand the dynamic behind professional class men nearly always pairing up with “college educated” women as SAHMs because they misunderstand that her having an (already-completed) sensible degree is part of responsible financial life-planning (that’s the ONE aspect of marriage you don’t have to take as a leap of faith!).

ryan thompson's avatar

"Porn is a problem" Okay, at least Scott is making a reasonable argument here that it's a symptom of what's been done to men post 70s (which surprise surprise is when porn exploded no pun intended) so let's do this. I'll give up porn when women are forced to settle. They don't want to settle? Okay, no AV laws. That's fair. That's consistent. Like the great philosopher Ice T once said concerning the 2nd amendment "I'll give up my gun when everyone else does".

Daniel Lee's avatar

The gooning sessions to big tiddy tiktok teens will continue until morale improves.

ryan thompson's avatar

LOL it's so stupid. You don't have to humiliate yourself for some woman who will ignore you. Just watch actual effing porn, invest in a collection at a physical store if these weetodddid AV laws are already in effect where you live. It's like those people who just live on soda and candy bars instead of eating meat/rice/fruit and they wonder why they feel like sheeyat. You can lead a zoomer to actual sex/real porn but you can't make him phuck/jerk off.

The Lady Layman's avatar

Good use of the ‘until morale improves’ trope.

Bob's avatar

Growing up in DC during the 70s and 80s we saw a massive influx of gay men from San Francisco when the AIDS crisis struck. Liberal women and gay men =same/same

Robert Labossiere's avatar

Literally nobody cares about these women and what they think they want. Why are you even writing about them?

True European's avatar

Girls “mature “earlier than boys and in the modern era of dating apps, the abortion pill and greater number of college attendees it means that most of them have er put up some mileage on their odometer…

Grey Squirrel's avatar

Religious men in Protestant communities are kind of feminine because it emphasizes quiet reading. I was reading a book about Taiwanese folk religion, with a frame story about the issues surrounding Protestant dawah over there, and the main situation is that they had trouble getting prole guys to attend because you sat and read a book.

Now they would gravitate toward Taiwanese folk religion because it was about blowing things up. Guys also like Islam and Orthodox Judaism because they're about chanting in a group, bowing, sitting, standing, bowing, and have a semi militaristic attitude.

Oklp's avatar

Tired about "well" girls are doing. Cut off all their preferences in law and academia and see how well they would do. Also, going to college means nothing. You can find any number of colleges with over 50% acceptance rate to send you into debt.

Viddao's avatar

I totally agree with you that there is too much man-bashing, and that most women have unrealistic expectations. This makes everything harder on everyone. So, given that context, is there any advice you can give to me for how to improve myself and/or better find a mate? Thank you very much.

Farmer Todd's avatar

Get to the gym. That's the most important step. If you're overweight, start dieting to lose it. Woke doing that:

Your reading list: No More Mr Nice Guy by Dr Robert Glover, Married Man Sex Life Primer by Athol Kay, When I Say No I Feel Guilty by Dr Manuel Smith, The Rational Male by Rollo Tomassi and Praxeology Series by Rian Stone.

That's a good start

The Lady Layman's avatar

Jesus Christ women do not marry Rollo Tomassi.

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The Lady Layman's avatar

Do you ever read the full comments before you respond to what I say? He literally recommended Rollo. It's right above you in black and white.

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The Lady Layman's avatar

No, they didn’t. At all. They’re good for men who don’t see women as people. He’s a gross hypocrite and he’s always been a sleazy disgusting hypocrite. There’s no faster way to alienate a woman than to tell her you read that drivel.

Also… married men with a real life don’t read that garbage. They’re busy building real and full lives.

Crimson's avatar

The alarming statistics about pornography use may provide a clue as to the main origin of this problem. The timeline certainly matches up.

Viddao's avatar

I probably agree with you, but what specific thing and what specific time. I can be dense and sometimes require a blunt response.

João Correia's avatar

All the women interviewed look like the stereotypical center right ambitious prole of "i just want to parasite my husband's money and wealth" or they want to marry a penis then go to church and not to feel bad for having the instincts of an animal. Dont work your bfs issues either.

Were all better off with these slags not passing off their genes.